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Don't hate me , because I am smart and beautiful! -- 阿修罗 - (1472 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 03:32 (3504 reads)

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标题: honey, learn it and deal with it :) (496 reads) 时间: 2007-9-19 周三, 07:24

作者：Candyheart 在海归商务发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com

I'm reading this book "how to interview like a top MBA", and one of a top recruiters that has worked with two top consulting companies shared that more than 50% of his successful interviews were guided by the interviewers talking for most of the time because people just want to talk about themselves which make them feel good...

Don't take it the hard way, and he may not have felt really intimidated but that he didn't feel the chemistry was quite right. Strong women do have set-backs no matter how FAIR it looks like^_^

I've passed the first three rounds of interviews with Accenture and the final and 4th round is this Friday. But I can see something similar between us from my first formal interview experience three weeks ago with Golder Associates Inc (a big civil engineering firm). I got G's rejection letter today in mail and the reason was that (per one of the Engineers who happen to be a Chinese and RA for a graduate class that I took 5yrs ago): I didn't know how to listen and I talked too much Razz

You are not alone, and let's put ourselves in their shoes too. From my own experience as an interviewer a few months ago, I did enjoy talking most of the time with a job candidate that I felt good about: her resume already said it all and I didn;t need her to answer too much to confirm my judgement during our conversation.

I'm sorry that you missed this opportunity, but a better one must be waiting ahead and next time you'll be better prepared...

Best wishes

作者：Candyheart 在海归商务发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com

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Don't hate me , because I am smart and beautiful! -- 阿修罗 - (1472 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 03:32 (3504 reads)

【借一下宝地】英文好的，给俺推荐一个在线学习的网站，或者自己感觉不错的英文教学软件。谢谢。 -- 卜鹰 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-21 周五, 01:46 (545 reads)

忍不住goog一下"an impeccable interview", Results 1 - 5 of 5... -- lugordon - (0 Byte) 2007-9-21 周五, 02:16 (347 reads)

怀疑来这里练英语的人越来越多了。。 -- 或是 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 16:47 (410 reads)

Re: 怀疑来这里练英语的人越来越多了。。 -- handsomekenney - (159 Byte) 2007-9-21 周五, 02:43 (286 reads)

你该反省一下。也许你真不如你自己想像的那末好。那你的英语为例。 -- TTFan - (431 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 13:34 (574 reads)

第5点大致可以，别的赞同 -- godmanbj - (38 Byte) 2007-9-21 周五, 15:06 (290 reads)

you are not my cup of tea either -- hedggie - (128 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 13:06 (385 reads)

阿修啊，请原谅俺不太喜欢看英文。。。 -- 波儿 - (362 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 12:51 (470 reads)

Gung Ho -- 阿修罗 - (1477 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 06:49 (804 reads)

自信是可贵的,尤其在年轻时。谦虚是随着岁月和阅历才能慢慢积累起来的。 -- 0SHK - (0 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 07:37 (536 reads)

Dear OSHK, it is very kind of you to say so :-) -- 阿修罗 - (740 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 08:12 (497 reads)

你是对的 -- nanokid - (0 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 07:59 (293 reads)

self perception与现实有不小的差距。嘿嘿。:P -- 夏日 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 19:22 (286 reads)

白哥做的对 -- netsuite - (101 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 16:46 (431 reads)

请停止这场丑陋的求职埋怨+显备英语秀吧！ -- 科尔沁草原殿下 - (122 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 16:27 (821 reads)

Your post has my respect:-))) -- 阿修罗 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 07:16 (289 reads)

Call, 在这里秀英语的是楼主，丫连这个都没搞清楚 -- 孙悟空 - (12 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 21:38 (434 reads)

谢谢回帖，你不喜欢我的观点可以提， -- 科尔沁草原殿下 - (38 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 23:39 (369 reads)

Are you ready? -- sap - (1478 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 13:44 (540 reads)

商务英语印度人更牛，不得不承认...给你加星了，不过你语法时态错误不少. -- Candyheart - (0 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 10:49 (378 reads)

It's time to wake up -- sap - (639 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 16:07 (411 reads)

兄弟，你说的consultant，是否就是接IT Projects？ -- 韦小宝 - (114 Byte) 2007-9-21 周五, 06:59 (298 reads)

我看，你还是来酒吧逛逛，贴点beauti 的照片什莫的。楼下几十口子七嘴八舌的，你说你该听谁的呀？ -- XiamenTurtle - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 13:18 (336 reads)

You more likely irratated him, instead intimidated him. -- conker - (298 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 13:07 (404 reads)

The smartest is also humble -- sapientaf - (237 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 11:46 (670 reads)

hmm...true, but only when they get older.. -- AmyAmy - (211 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 22:38 (351 reads)

人要学会从第三者的角度看自己 -- HappyPoorMan - (181 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 11:11 (587 reads)

why work for this crap co -- ferncrest - (20 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 10:52 (328 reads)

现在明白什么主贴才能有更多跟贴了。楼主的性格可能更适合创业吧,像我一样。 -- 0SHK - (31 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 09:58 (351 reads)

全部卖点都有了：厉害 = 美女 + 才女 + 80后 -- 韦小宝 - (948 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 09:46 (974 reads)

九四九四。干脆替俺哥们直说了吧：罗MM干脆别费劲巴拉地瞎找工作了，就跟着小宝兄弟干，保证能吃香的喝辣的，倍儿爽！ -- XiamenTurtle - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 13:22 (268 reads)

在JOB Market里, 常常只有最合适, 没有最好..... -- Endlessbook - (50 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 09:18 (470 reads)

书虫兄，我看这事您老就高姿态，让让贤给小宝兄弟吧。兄弟之间别打起来哈 -- XiamenTurtle - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 13:34 (280 reads)

看公司啦, google初创时雇的就是最好的,往往是名校博士, 不一定是最合适的 :) -- china_firefly - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 09:22 (286 reads)

阿修啊，SHUT UP AND RESTART YOUR JOB HUNTING PLS -- 错误 - (110 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 08:22 (483 reads)

Thump Up^ ! ^ -- 阿修罗 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 08:26 (320 reads)

要不, 去申请做他的老板位置? 或者是: -- china_firefly - (32 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 08:29 (304 reads)

要不，老板的娘也成 -- 天蝎座的 - (2 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 08:34 (242 reads)

It is flattering. How sweet you are ,Scorpio:-) -- 阿修罗 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-20 周四, 06:51 (181 reads)

i worked for an erp consulting firm before and participated -- 天蝎座的 - (705 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 08:12 (409 reads)

Thank you , Scorpio:-) -- 阿修罗 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 09:04 (183 reads)

你想要那份工作，可是你却拿不到，你凭什么说自己SMART。明知是杀鸡，你却用牛刀，基本常识都没有。（不好意思，我人太直） -- jimmychai - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 07:53 (319 reads)

honey, learn it and deal with it :) -- Candyheart - (1521 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 07:24 (496 reads)

Sweetheart , Thank you for your echo ! -- 阿修罗 - (859 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 08:08 (615 reads)

英语太差 -- gonghaigui - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 10:43 (197 reads)

it was the tuition for the social university :) -- 海归草 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 08:46 (193 reads)

你的问题是 -- pplover - (85 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:35 (602 reads)

Sweetie. -- 阿修罗 - (326 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:47 (369 reads)

Honey, 看来,以下几个词需要加深揣摩啊 -- wiser56 - (82 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 07:00 (377 reads)

Even if he accepted me, I wouldn't be paid at all. -- 阿修罗 - (7 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 07:10 (269 reads)

面试是双向的 -- wiser56 - (171 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:00 (661 reads)

嘻嘻，从她回贴的态度可以看出不是一个很好的“TEAM PLAYER”！ -- 素问 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 07:59 (324 reads)

有些leader在有official authority后会更如鱼得水，之前的日子就要看persistency和伯乐了~ -- Candyheart - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 08:44 (253 reads)

千里马常有，伯乐不常有。 -- suancai - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 09:45 (295 reads)

我对这话一直有看法：如果伯乐不常有，怎么能说千里马常有呢？ -- 错误 - (37 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 09:59 (253 reads)

呼呼，人很多。煎饼JJ签名：工作就象。。。你不行，别人就上。 -- suancai - (14 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 12:40 (224 reads)

I know I am just not his cup of tea. -- 阿修罗 - (38 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:05 (297 reads)

You just don't know what the flavor of tea they like. -- CWOOD - (266 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:38 (343 reads)

CWOOD :-))) You are speaking my mind -- 阿修罗 - (177 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 08:45 (262 reads)

Heh, maybe he thinks your English is terrible? -- 孙悟空 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 04:18 (441 reads)

Honey, your initial hypothesis should be the last resort -- 阿修罗 - (1639 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 05:04 (567 reads)

I don't doubt you have worked really hard on your English -- 孙悟空 - (448 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 05:54 (501 reads)

I just threw an American joke to your question -- 阿修罗 - (60 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:01 (498 reads)

meant no offense, but "no offense" :-) -- 关山飞度 - (32 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:33 (246 reads)

I don't want to sound too harsh, but you are making my point -- 孙悟空 - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:11 (273 reads)

She sounds right -- nanokid - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:26 (197 reads)

Sweetie, my hands-on tip about Writing and speaking -- 阿修罗 - (1334 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 05:35 (474 reads)

挑剔地讲,这段写的还是有些小错的.之所谓,萝卜快了不洗泥. -- 司徒培德 - (18 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:55 (279 reads)

Re: Sweetie, my hands-on tip about Writing and speaking -- handsomekenney - (1791 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 05:52 (369 reads)

WC, 最后一句才是主题啊! -- wiser56 - (17 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 06:03 (241 reads)

Re: Honey, your initial hypothesis should be the last resort -- handsomekenney - (1888 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 05:23 (348 reads)

呼呼！这么用功的MM，可敬！ :) :) 说和写呢？ -- suancai - (0 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 05:20 (190 reads)

Re: Heh, maybe he thinks your English is terrible? -- handsomekenney - (170 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 04:56 (247 reads)

over qualificated -- handsomekenney - (416 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 03:41 (481 reads)

Thank you for your input. -- 阿修罗 - (143 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 03:46 (374 reads)

看来你还是没有理解“over qualificated” -- 蚂蚁搬家 - (57 Byte) 2007-9-19 周三, 10:09 (297 reads)

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