新泽西, 夜雨, 然后就尝到寂寞的滋味了.

首先想到的是寂寞梧桐, 深院锁清秋. 心中不舒服, 又不知道怎么排解, 就开始腹诽李大才子, 为什么就没有勇气殉个国什么的呢? 留下这么多精神垃圾.

随后到Internet上找cure. Google loneliness, 出来好多有趣的东西,如下:

首先是严谨的定义:
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation.
多复杂, 用的词如emptiness, 咱平时谁用过?

然后有一帮名人名言. I am alone, I am not lonely. 这个大家中学都学过, 不算.

If you find yourself struggling with loneliness, you’re not alone. And yet you are alone. So very alone.
— From the Despair.com website
这个是最厉害的, "嘿嘿, 小样, 你也寂寞了吧. 别怕, 大家都一样. 但所以也才更可怕. " 结论就是没治了.

Loneliness has followed me my whole life, in bars and cars, I can’t escape it, I’m God’s lonely man.
—Travis Bickle in Taxi Driver
这个象不象王家卫的"孤星入命".

Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.
—Mother Teresa
圣女说的, 她境界肯定比我不知道高多少了. 那这么说来我是个最穷的人了, 又怎么在我的case里发挥光脚汉的优势呢?　

Loneliness is the worst pain in this world. It constantly eats away the person’s heart, and can cause the person to hate, to feel enraged–the same rage and hate that can cause one person to kill another. It is like a wound of the heart; the type of wounds that cannot go away with a kiss or a hug. The only thing that can make this great pain go away is love and compassion, another human heart to pull them out of this hell.
—Diana, Princess of Wales
Diana说过这样的话. Sigh, 原来即使富贵美貌如她, 也这么苦哈哈…

No one can defeat loneliness.
—From the Naruto TV series
这个是消极思想, 大家要批判对待.